How to Choose, Follow Etiquette, and Understand the Price Range for Stand-Up Flowers at Funerals

2024/11/30
How to Choose, Follow Etiquette, and Understand the Price Range for Stand-Up Flowers at Funerals

Stand-up flowers placed at funeral venues are sent as a way to honor the deceased. So, how should one choose the right stand-up flowers for such an occasion?

In this article, we will explain how to select stand-up flowers, the etiquette to follow, and the general price range for these flowers, which may be difficult to ask about.

What Are Stand-Up Flowers?

Stand-Up Flowers Stand-up flowers refer to floral arrangements displayed on a freestanding stand. They are also called “flower stands” and are commonly seen at events such as weddings, funerals, and other ceremonies.

Different flowers are used for funerals, and each flower holds a specific meaning. Here are a few examples of funeral flower types:

  • Ippon Hana (One-Flower Arrangement)
    These flowers are placed next to the body when it is kept at home, as part of the Buddhist ritual called “makurakazari.” The arrangement often includes flowers like shikimi (a type of evergreen) or chrysanthemums.
  • Makura Hana (Pillow Flowers)
    These are flowers offered at home near the deceased’s body, typically from close family or friends.
  • Kyouka (Funeral Flowers)
    These flowers are offered to pray for the soul of the deceased. Stand-up flowers used for funerals fall under this category. Other floral arrangements can also be used as kyouka. Common flowers used include chrysanthemums, carnations, and lilies, with a preference for white colors, although the flowers may vary depending on the region.
  • Hanawa (Floral Wreath)
    A circular flower arrangement placed at the top of the stand, with the sender’s name often written at the base. Both fresh and artificial flowers can be used, but lately, some customs have simplified this by omitting the wreath.
  • Kenka (Offering Flowers)
    Primarily seen at Christian funerals, participants offer flowers as a form of tribute. Though the meaning is similar to that of offering incense in some Buddhist traditions, certain Buddhist ceremonies also include this practice.
  • Shinto Funerals
    In Shinto funerals, sakaki branches are offered during the tamagushi ritual, which is different from the flower offerings.

What Flowers Should You Choose?

The flowers you choose for a stand-up arrangement at a funeral will depend on the religious or spiritual background of the deceased. Below are some common recommendations:

  • Buddhism
    For Buddhist funerals, white flowers are generally preferred. Common flowers include chrysanthemums, lilies, carnations, and sometimes orchids. If you wish to incorporate color, soft pastel shades like light pink or pale purple are appropriate.
  • Shinto
    Shinto funerals also use white flowers, often emphasizing white chrysanthemums. Sakaki branches are typically offered by the priest in charge, not placed as part of the floral arrangement.
  • Christianity
    In Christian funerals, stand-up flowers are not as commonly used. Instead, floral arrangements in baskets are typically sent to the home. Because Catholic and Protestant traditions may vary, it’s safer to send flowers directly to the home rather than to the church. Common flowers used include white lilies and carnations. It’s also customary to send flowers without a nameplate.

What Is the Price Range for Stand-Up Flowers?

The general price range for stand-up flowers is typically between ¥15,000 and ¥20,000. In the past, it was common to send two stands (a pair), but depending on the relationship with the deceased and the size of the funeral venue, sending one stand is often acceptable.

Funeral Flower Etiquette

Since funeral arrangements are typically handled by the funeral home, it’s important to first confirm with the family or funeral company whether sending stand-up flowers is appropriate. If the funeral home is managing all the arrangements, you can pay for the stand-up flowers directly at the funeral venue.

Make sure to send the flowers in advance, ideally one hour before the funeral begins, so they arrive on time.

Let Parterre Handle Your Funeral Stand-Up Flowers

At Parterre, we also offer stand-up flowers specifically for funerals. We can customize arrangements to fit the local customs or religious requirements of the family, and we can incorporate flowers that were favorites of the deceased if desired.

If you have any specific requests or questions, feel free to reach out to us.

Parterre Locations in Iwate Offering Funeral Stand-Up Flowers:

  • Kitakami Main Store Parterre: 1-1-5 Tsutsumioka, Kitakami, Iwate
  • Morioka Honmachi Store Parterre: 1-2-3 Honmachi, Morioka, Iwate
  • Oshu Esashi Store Fleur Marche: 7-2 Esashi Nishidori, Oshu, Iwate (Inside Super San-A)
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